A Late Start to an Unexpected Journey
Iāll be honest with youāI never thought Iād turn into a book lover. Me, a guy who couldnāt sit still long enough to read a paragraph, much less a whole chapter? Sounds crazy, right? But here I am, all these years later, completely hooked.
See, I didnāt start reading until I hit my late 40s. Before that, I was the energetic kid who spent every minute running around outside, getting rid of all the hyperactivity that constantly charged through me. Books didnāt appeal to me as a kid; in fact, I wanted nothing to do with them. My dad, though, had other ideas. Heād hand me a book every summer and say, āRead this!ā And trust me, heād hold me to it in his no-nonsense way.
Back then, I didnāt get it. Sure, I read Battlefield Earth, a few Tom Clancy novels, and some historical books my dad loved, but it felt like a task. I wasnāt soaking in the lessons or finding the meaning he probably hoped I would. And donāt get me started on school and the assigned readingāwe were talking about The Classics. Cue the eye rolls. The last thing teenage me wanted to do was slug through one of those.
I didnāt realize it at the time, but maybe it wasnāt that I hated books. Maybe it was how much effort it took me to make sense of them, to absorb the words. I wasnāt diagnosed with ADHD until I was 49 years old, so a lot of my struggles suddenly made sense later. But back then? It felt like life was always uphill when it came to learning the ānormalā way.
I trudged through those years with my ābooks are boringā mindset and left reading far behind me.
The Big Shift
Fast forward to 47. Iām running a successful business, managing life, but deep down, Iām restless. Some things were clicking, sure, but others felt out of sync. I started working with coachesāsmart, driven people who challenged meāand I noticed one recurring theme in their advice. They all read books. Like, a lot of books.
At first, I thought, āAlright, good for them,ā but then I started to connect the dots. These were successful, sharp people who werenāt just readingāthey were learning, applying, evolving. And there I was, getting by without books but not really breaking through in the way I wanted. Thatās when I thought, āWhat have I got to lose?ā
Sitting in my home officeāthe one with the big, nearly empty bookshelves that stared back at meāI decided to give it a shot. I picked up a book and started reading. What was the first one? Honestly, I donāt even remember. Maybe it was one of Grant Cardoneās 10X books or a quick, bite-sized read to get the ball rolling. What I do remember is that something clicked.
I started devouring books like Iād been missing something all my life and finally found it. Fiction, biographies, self-help, businessāyou name it, I was cracking it open. Each one became a stepping stone to the next.
Finding My Groove
Books didnāt just become a habit; they became a part of me. I wasnāt sticking to one type of story or one message. I was all over the place, and I was loving it.
Grant Cardone hit me with the big guns. The 10X Rule was the kick in the pants I didnāt even know I needed. Then came Be Obsessed or Be Average. I didnāt read them all at once, but over time, they became my go-to when I needed to refocus on my goals. David Gogginsā story? That guy made me rethink what I thought was possible. And then youāve got Tim Kennedy with Scars and Stripes, which had me cracking up while delivering some surprisingly deep lessons.
Not every book rocked my world, but thatās the beauty of itāthereās something in every single one. Even a novel like Fight Club blew my mind in a way I didnāt expect. I never saw the movie, but the book had me questioning just about everything. I was all-in on this adventure.
Iāll tell you this, thoughāwhen my son handed me Paulo Coelhoās The Alchemist as a Christmas gift, it hit differently. Maybe it was the timing or maybe it was the way that book felt in my handsāit was beautiful, like a piece of art. I read it in three hours on a flight and came away changed.
That one stuck with me. A lot of books do now. They arenāt just stories or lessons anymore; theyāre reminders. Theyāre pieces of the puzzle that showed me how to put my life together in ways I didnāt even know I was missing.
Filling My Shelves, And My Soul
That once-sparse bookshelf in my office now tells its own story. Every title is a part of me, a moment in time where something clicked, shifted, or inspired me. When people come to visit and see my collection, they always ask, āDid you actually read all these?ā
Yes, I did. And no, I didnāt buy them just to make my house look cozy or intellectual. These books are my mentors, my confidants, my roadmap. If I lost them all tomorrow, the leather covers, the pages it would hurt. However, what Iāve gained is so much deeper than that.
Books taught me to think differently. They transformed how I approach my businesses and communicate with people to how I structure my day. Theyāve given me new perspectives, ones I never thought Iād find, and theyāve made me better. A better dad. A better husband. A better person.
Why Itās Never Too Late
If youāre sitting there thinking, āThatās great for you, but I just donāt have the time,ā I get it. I was you once. But hereās the thingāitās never too late. Whether youāre 27 or 57, thereās never been a better moment to pick up a book and see where it takes you. And here is a nugget for you, from one of the many books I read: āSchedule Your Time Or Someone Else Will.ā
Now marinate on that for a second!
All you need to do is start with one. Any one. You donāt need a roadmap, just turn that first page. Thatās how it happened for me, and itās no exaggeration to say it changed my life.
The best investments are the ones you make in yourself. Books are your ticket to a broader mind, sharper skills, and a richer life. They push you past limits you didnāt know you had, and in the process, they help you find your edge.
Take the Leap
My challenge to you? Pick up a book this week. Give it an honest shot. Push past the excuses and just start. Donāt do it because I told you to! Do it because youāre worth the effort.
And if you love it? Share that spark with someone else. Hand them a book, encourage them to start their own adventure. Hold them accountable, not out of duty, but out of hope.
Books have the power to transform not just individuals, but entire communities. If thereās one thing Iāve learned from my late start to this unexpected passion, itās simply this: Knowledge Changes Everything.
Be great and grateful.
ā G