A Late Start to an Unexpected Journey
Iâll be honest with youâI never thought Iâd turn into a book lover. Me, a guy who couldnât sit still long enough to read a paragraph, much less a whole chapter? Sounds crazy, right? But here I am, all these years later, completely hooked.
See, I didnât start reading until I hit my late 40s. Before that, I was the energetic kid who spent every minute running around outside, getting rid of all the hyperactivity that constantly charged through me. Books didnât appeal to me as a kid; in fact, I wanted nothing to do with them. My dad, though, had other ideas. Heâd hand me a book every summer and say, âRead this!â And trust me, heâd hold me to it in his no-nonsense way.
Back then, I didnât get it. Sure, I read Battlefield Earth, a few Tom Clancy novels, and some historical books my dad loved, but it felt like a task. I wasnât soaking in the lessons or finding the meaning he probably hoped I would. And donât get me started on school and the assigned readingâwe were talking about The Classics. Cue the eye rolls. The last thing teenage me wanted to do was slug through one of those.
I didnât realize it at the time, but maybe it wasnât that I hated books. Maybe it was how much effort it took me to make sense of them, to absorb the words. I wasnât diagnosed with ADHD until I was 49 years old, so a lot of my struggles suddenly made sense later. But back then? It felt like life was always uphill when it came to learning the ânormalâ way.
I trudged through those years with my âbooks are boringâ mindset and left reading far behind me.
The Big Shift
Fast forward to 47. Iâm running a successful business, managing life, but deep down, Iâm restless. Some things were clicking, sure, but others felt out of sync. I started working with coachesâsmart, driven people who challenged meâand I noticed one recurring theme in their advice. They all read books. Like, a lot of books.
At first, I thought, âAlright, good for them,â but then I started to connect the dots. These were successful, sharp people who werenât just readingâthey were learning, applying, evolving. And there I was, getting by without books but not really breaking through in the way I wanted. Thatâs when I thought, âWhat have I got to lose?â
Sitting in my home officeâthe one with the big, nearly empty bookshelves that stared back at meâI decided to give it a shot. I picked up a book and started reading. What was the first one? Honestly, I donât even remember. Maybe it was one of Grant Cardoneâs 10X books or a quick, bite-sized read to get the ball rolling. What I do remember is that something clicked.
I started devouring books like Iâd been missing something all my life and finally found it. Fiction, biographies, self-help, businessâyou name it, I was cracking it open. Each one became a stepping stone to the next.
Finding My Groove
Books didnât just become a habit; they became a part of me. I wasnât sticking to one type of story or one message. I was all over the place, and I was loving it.
Grant Cardone hit me with the big guns. The 10X Rule was the kick in the pants I didnât even know I needed. Then came Be Obsessed or Be Average. I didnât read them all at once, but over time, they became my go-to when I needed to refocus on my goals. David Gogginsâ story? That guy made me rethink what I thought was possible. And then youâve got Tim Kennedy with Scars and Stripes, which had me cracking up while delivering some surprisingly deep lessons.
Not every book rocked my world, but thatâs the beauty of itâthereâs something in every single one. Even a novel like Fight Club blew my mind in a way I didnât expect. I never saw the movie, but the book had me questioning just about everything. I was all-in on this adventure.
Iâll tell you this, thoughâwhen my son handed me Paulo Coelhoâs The Alchemist as a Christmas gift, it hit differently. Maybe it was the timing or maybe it was the way that book felt in my handsâit was beautiful, like a piece of art. I read it in three hours on a flight and came away changed.
That one stuck with me. A lot of books do now. They arenât just stories or lessons anymore; theyâre reminders. Theyâre pieces of the puzzle that showed me how to put my life together in ways I didnât even know I was missing.
Filling My Shelves, And My Soul
That once-sparse bookshelf in my office now tells its own story. Every title is a part of me, a moment in time where something clicked, shifted, or inspired me. When people come to visit and see my collection, they always ask, âDid you actually read all these?â
Yes, I did. And no, I didnât buy them just to make my house look cozy or intellectual. These books are my mentors, my confidants, my roadmap. If I lost them all tomorrow, the leather covers, the pages it would hurt. However, what Iâve gained is so much deeper than that.
Books taught me to think differently. They transformed how I approach my businesses and communicate with people to how I structure my day. Theyâve given me new perspectives, ones I never thought Iâd find, and theyâve made me better. A better dad. A better husband. A better person.
Why Itâs Never Too Late
If youâre sitting there thinking, âThatâs great for you, but I just donât have the time,â I get it. I was you once. But hereâs the thingâitâs never too late. Whether youâre 27 or 57, thereâs never been a better moment to pick up a book and see where it takes you. And here is a nugget for you, from one of the many books I read: âSchedule Your Time Or Someone Else Will.â
Now marinate on that for a second!
All you need to do is start with one. Any one. You donât need a roadmap, just turn that first page. Thatâs how it happened for me, and itâs no exaggeration to say it changed my life.
The best investments are the ones you make in yourself. Books are your ticket to a broader mind, sharper skills, and a richer life. They push you past limits you didnât know you had, and in the process, they help you find your edge.
Take the Leap
My challenge to you? Pick up a book this week. Give it an honest shot. Push past the excuses and just start. Donât do it because I told you to! Do it because youâre worth the effort.
And if you love it? Share that spark with someone else. Hand them a book, encourage them to start their own adventure. Hold them accountable, not out of duty, but out of hope.
Books have the power to transform not just individuals, but entire communities. If thereâs one thing Iâve learned from my late start to this unexpected passion, itâs simply this: Knowledge Changes Everything.
Be great and grateful.
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